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Dear roommate,
In most civilized societies, when one shares space with someone, it is considered POLITE to ask them before agreeing to letting in a descending horde of people. TELLING me that you are having 20 or so people over for Thanksgiving only two deays before, is just fucking rude, considering I ask you if im going to have ANYONE over. Its a matter of respecting space, and respecting comfort zones. I would have said yes if you had asked, and probably been inclined to help and enjoy it, but since i was merely informed and not given an option, im not inclined to join in your festivities, or to assist you with them in the slightest. You didnt even consider that i may have plans already, which I did. Now I have to change my plans because you could not be bothered to be a decent human being and show me some fucking consideration. Did it even cross your mind that i may not want 20 something people in my house on a thursday when I am feeling sad and homesick? I asked if my own birthday party was okay with you, but you can just decide last second to host a huge party and not even tell me?
I told you when we moved in, we are assigned to each other, so I dont expect us to be the bestest friends evar, hell, i dont even expect us to like each other. I do however, expect to be treated like a human fucking being because I will give you the same consideration. When I have done things that have been thoughtless and inconsiderate, i have apologized, and tried to make it up to you. I also have refrained from repeating said offenses.
you cant even be bothered to rinse a damn spoon in the morning. we get to the end of the week and theres not a single clean dish in the house except the ones that I used because I cleaned them right after using them. And of course for your breakfast that morning, you used the ONE CLEAN DISH!! I manage to clean the WHOLE kitchen because it is a mess, you only ever manage to do the dishes that you THINK are yours. Heads up sweetcheeks, you miss a bunch EVERY TIME. You have picked up the vaccuum and mop once, and it was because i handed them to you and it was to clean your own fucking room. nevermind the kitchen that we both use, nevermind the bathroom which we both use. also, hogging the bathroom when its the only mirror that I have while you have one in your huge room? its bullshit.
GROW THE FUCK UP! You are almost twenty, its time to join the adult fucking world you stupid bitch. the world does not fucking revolve around you. I hate you, i truly truly do, and you will be fucking lucky if you get out of this experience without me getting sneaky evil tamper-with-your-toothpaste passive aggressive on your ass.
In most civilized societies, when one shares space with someone, it is considered POLITE to ask them before agreeing to letting in a descending horde of people. TELLING me that you are having 20 or so people over for Thanksgiving only two deays before, is just fucking rude, considering I ask you if im going to have ANYONE over. Its a matter of respecting space, and respecting comfort zones. I would have said yes if you had asked, and probably been inclined to help and enjoy it, but since i was merely informed and not given an option, im not inclined to join in your festivities, or to assist you with them in the slightest. You didnt even consider that i may have plans already, which I did. Now I have to change my plans because you could not be bothered to be a decent human being and show me some fucking consideration. Did it even cross your mind that i may not want 20 something people in my house on a thursday when I am feeling sad and homesick? I asked if my own birthday party was okay with you, but you can just decide last second to host a huge party and not even tell me?
I told you when we moved in, we are assigned to each other, so I dont expect us to be the bestest friends evar, hell, i dont even expect us to like each other. I do however, expect to be treated like a human fucking being because I will give you the same consideration. When I have done things that have been thoughtless and inconsiderate, i have apologized, and tried to make it up to you. I also have refrained from repeating said offenses.
you cant even be bothered to rinse a damn spoon in the morning. we get to the end of the week and theres not a single clean dish in the house except the ones that I used because I cleaned them right after using them. And of course for your breakfast that morning, you used the ONE CLEAN DISH!! I manage to clean the WHOLE kitchen because it is a mess, you only ever manage to do the dishes that you THINK are yours. Heads up sweetcheeks, you miss a bunch EVERY TIME. You have picked up the vaccuum and mop once, and it was because i handed them to you and it was to clean your own fucking room. nevermind the kitchen that we both use, nevermind the bathroom which we both use. also, hogging the bathroom when its the only mirror that I have while you have one in your huge room? its bullshit.
GROW THE FUCK UP! You are almost twenty, its time to join the adult fucking world you stupid bitch. the world does not fucking revolve around you. I hate you, i truly truly do, and you will be fucking lucky if you get out of this experience without me getting sneaky evil tamper-with-your-toothpaste passive aggressive on your ass.
